• Title: The No-Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers:Gentle Ways to Stop Bedtime Battles and Improve Your Child's Sleep
  • Author: Elizabeth Pantley
  • ISBN: 9780071444910
  • Page: 381
  • Format: Paperback
  • The No Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers Gentle Ways to Stop Bedtime Battles and Improve Your Child s Sleep Guaranteed to help parents reclaim sweet dreams for their entire family New from the bestselling author of the classic baby sleep guide Getting babies to sleep through the night is one thing getting w
    Guaranteed to help parents reclaim sweet dreams for their entire family New from the bestselling author of the classic baby sleep guide Getting babies to sleep through the night is one thing getting willful toddlers and energetic preschoolers to sleep is another problem altogether Written to help sleep deprived parents of children ages one to five, The No Cry Sleep SoluGuaranteed to help parents reclaim sweet dreams for their entire familyNew from the bestselling author of the classic baby sleep guide Getting babies to sleep through the night is one thing getting willful toddlers and energetic preschoolers to sleep is another problem altogether Written to help sleep deprived parents of children ages one to five, The No Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers offers loving solutions to help this active age group get the rest they and their parents so desperately need.A follow up to Elizabeth Pantley s megahit The No Cry Sleep Solution, this breakthrough guide is written in Pantley s trademark gentle, child centered style Parents will discover a wellspring of positive approaches to help their children get to bed, stay in bed, and sleep all night, without having to resort to punishments or other negative and ineffective measures The No Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers tackles many common nighttime obstacles, including Refusals to go to bedNight waking and early risingReluctance to move out of the crib and into a big kid bedNighttime visits to the parents bedNaptime problemsNightmares, night terrors, and fearsSpecial sleep issues of twins, special needs children, and adopted childrenSleepwalking, sleep talking, snoring, and tooth grinding

    One Reply to “The No-Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers:Gentle Ways to Stop Bedtime Battles and Improve Your Child's Sleep”

    1. I keep reading this book in hopes of finding some magical solution for getting Cole to sleep reliably. When I find it, I suspect it will be tethered to the tail of a pig flying by

    2. It didn't have the answer I was looking for, which was, "How to get a 14 month old to sleep through the night." It did change my attitude about dealing with my child when he is awake or won't go to sleepI've begun to cherish that time with him much more.There seems to be a gap between baby sleeping books and toddler sleeping books. Many of the the author's examples and references were of older toddlers, children that can carry conversations and have opinions. My child still can't tell me why he [...]

    3. This book was like it was future me writing to current me. I've heard a lot of the ideas in this book at la Leche league meetings. After the birth of my third child, and an unexpected five day hospital stay, my two older children, ages four and two, completely changed their sleep patterns and we needed help fast. Kind, gentle and realistic, Pantley explains that every family is different and there are many great ways to approach sleep. She gives calming reassurance and praise. She understands ex [...]

    4. For some reason, I liked this book substantially more than Pantley's previous book (The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night). Still no real solution here for why my 20-month old still can't stay asleep through the night, but helpful chapters on expectations management (i.e lots and lots of parents are still getting up with toddlers) and strategies for what to do when he does wake up.I'm not sure how much of what I'm feeling is an attitude improvement and [...]

    5. I absolutely loved this book. I have been struggling with sleeping solutions ever since Jameson was a baby. I tried crying it out for a night and knew it just wasn't for me. I could never find a solution that didn't involve trying to teach my child that I won't respond when they cry. When a friend recommended the infant version of this book, I decided to give this one ago given the current ages of my children. I was amazed! It spoke to my exact parenting styles and was finally the answer I was l [...]

    6. This book mostly provided sensible easy-to-follow suggestions for methods to change a child's behavior in a positive way. Personally I felt like the sections explaining how things could be wrong in the first place were a little long, but I get why they're included.My only real objection was that the author was aggressively non-judgmental about practices and ideas that I personally find objectionable and potentially dangerous, such as by listing homeopathy and "craniosacral therapy" (very light h [...]

    7. This book address every possible night time issue. It is thorough and complete, and takes a gentle, loving approach. The biggest point to learn from this book, which I appreciate, is that we parents need to exercise patience and tender loving care. Children cannot be forced to sleep, anymore than an adult can sleep if they are not tired. I feel like parents, in the rush of life, forget that their children are little people who cannot explain themselves understandably, and patience and care are n [...]

    8. We benefited so greatly from the baby No-Cry Sleep Solution, that reading this book was a natural next step when our oldest reached toddlerhood. Toddlers have their own unique set of issues with sleep, phases, and understanding. What's wonderful about toddlers vs. babies is you can reason a little more with them, help them test their world with cause and effect, and learn to motivate them with rewards for good behavior. Pantley's method of gently nuturing your baby's sleep into toddlerhood fits [...]

    9. I love that this book had a chapter about the particular needs of adopted kids. I like that the recommendations that they suggest are all things that are appropriate for adopted kiddos or for people that aren't into Cry it out or Ferberizing. The hard thing is that the advice in this book isn't instant pudding or a simple do this and it will fix your sleep type solution. Instead, I think both parents need to read this book, gather some information about just what the problems with sleep are and [...]

    10. For the most part our son has been a good sleeper, but recently he has gotten to the point where if he doesn't sleep with ushe doesn't sleep at alld neither do we. So, we turned to the No-Cry Sleep Solution book to see if we could find answers. Not only did the book provide tips and guidance on how to solve our particular problem, it provides solutions for a plethora of other sleep issues - all without making your child "cry it out." Sometimes all a parent really needs is an authoritative voice [...]

    11. I found this book to be helpful and reassuring. Basically? All kids have sleep problems. It's not just my kid. And to get past and/or through your kid's sleep problems, you've got to try out a routine. And if it doesn't work, you gotta change it up and find what does work. I write this as my kid is in bed. On time. Without a battle tonight. Even though we were out this evening at a Valentine's Day party. We left a little early to get home and get our routine underway. Making small evening sacrif [...]

    12. I preferred this book over her original book "The No-Cry Sleep Solution" (for babies). My son was apparently ahead of the curve, standing, climbing out of bed at an early age, so some of her "solutions" wouldn't have worked. I decided to pick this book up a few months ago, because it dealt with issues we are having with him now that he is 21-months old: night nursing/waking, transitioning to a big kid bed etc. She has obviously been there and it is apparent. I incorporated some of her solutions [...]

    13. This was a good review ion the importance of routines. Since I have re-committed myself, Sully goes to sleep without crying and Agnes has stayed n her own bed all night for 7 days in a row! To top it all off the kids are now in bed before 8 every night and seem to be in much better moods. Now I need to tackle Sully's habit of waking up in the middle of his nap and want to finish his nap on the couch.

    14. Helpful even though I read the first book This book has given me new ideas and resolve to help my toddler sleep, without the trauma of too much crying.

    15. This is definitely a book geared toward first time parents, specifically because the suggestions, check lists, processes, etc. are likely self-explanatory to seasoned parents. I don't say this to criticize, but to inform. I got it thinking I would find some new ideas that I hadn't thought of or we had not already incorporated into our nighttime routine. Not really. It is much more labor intensive in its approach than I am ever going to be with bedtime, and since we already incorporate - in some [...]

    16. Finally, a sleep book free of dogma!This was a refreshing read, compiling what is known about sleep and presenting realistic options. If I had read this one first when I had my first child twelve years ago, I would have known to steer clear of the "my way or the highway" kid and baby sleep books.

    17. This book was filled with pictures of the author's sleeping children more than anything else. Uninspired.

    18. My husband read this first, and really liked it. It offers very specific constructive steps, which is more helpful than other books that are just general and supportive.I am still in the middle, but I agree it's good. It's a very quick read for a longer book. I am also finding that many things she suggests we are already doing, or are naturally occuring as my child gets older, so while those are things we can't add, it does reassure me that we are doing things correctly, as well as show that her [...]

    19. Nothing to extremely amazing here, but still points out some obvious know-how's that we had been missing. Will be a good one to keep around for reference as my babe gets older and may have night terrors or bed wetting.

    20. Haven't read most of it---just skimmed it for ideas on addressing problems with sleep-onset associations.It looks like much of the book advises staying with the kid until they fall asleep. Maybe it's fine for other kids, but that really didn't work for us, because he takes SO LONG to fall asleep, and he demands it again EVERY TIME he inevitably wakes during the night. We end up exhausted and frustrated.But pages 134-137 have two good suggestions on ways to wean the child away from needing a pare [...]

    21. I love “The No-Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers”! When my twins were a little over a year old a friend recommended this book to me. We had a unique situation in that my twins had special needs as infants and as a result, we never established any type of bedtime routine; we were pretty much just running on survival mode, everyone collapsing to sleep out of pure exhaustion late at night. Not healthy. Even though my twins were sleeping through the night then, it was very difficu [...]

    22. Ahhh Sleeping probably the number one topic of conversation for parents!Every parent has a different parenting style. From co-sleeping, baby-led-weaning, baby-carrying, home-birthing, cloth-nappy-wearing parents (I think of this as left-wing parenting) to the cry-it-out, bottle-fed, into-childcare-at-six-weeks parents (I think of this as right-wing parenting). The reality is, like politics, that the vast majority of people are somewhere in the middle (I'm centre-left). Elizabeth Pantley does a g [...]

    23. As she mentions in her first book, The No-Cry Sleep Solution, if you implement the ideas from her first book you shouldn't need this one. That said, I was hoping for more ideas and she had some more. We got The No-Cry Sleep Solution when William was 14 months old or so, and now he's almost 22 months and sleeping SOOOOO much better. But we have this persistant problem where he falls asleep pretty easily at night, and then wakes up 15 minutes later. He's sweet and happy and not crying at all - but [...]

    24. Good facts and info on toddler sleep needs. Holistic approach encourages you to step back and look at everything about the child's day that can contribute to better sleep. Also good for ideas on making bed and nap time pleasant and for transitioning from sleeping one place/time/way to another. Also had some sections that didn't apply to me (like multiples, adoptions, and medical issues relating to sleep). Like her baby sleep book, this book presents info and ideas and lets you as the intelligent [...]

    25. I heard about the "no-cry sleep solution"-movement for a long time but didin't really have much desire to find out what it is all about because bedtime was never a huge fiasco (at least not on a normal day)for us. I think this book would be more helpful in a couple more years. There were, however, a couple ofthings that I learned and have applied to my family just in the last couple of day because of this: 1. Routines are good as children get older. (yes tiffany you told me this too) I can see t [...]

    26. Several things made me like this book. The writing style was easy to read and the information was broken up into organized chapters and sections. This made it easy to follow and also easy to skim. Another feature I liked was how it was broken into three sections: general sleep info, 8 tips for everyone, and then trouble shooting. Again, that made it easy to figure out what you needed to read and what could be skimmed. As far as the advice goes, this one was easy for me to like because we already [...]

    27. As another reviewer wrote, this book is helpful and reassuring. I have found a lot of strategies and tricks in here that I am willing to try and that sound like they might work. Much of it is for later, when A's a little older (and of course I'm hoping I won't need it then if we can get the sleep and nap thing down pat now). I have also learned a lot about sleep itself.This book, combined with Good Night, Sleep Tight The Sleep Lady's Gentle Guide to Helping Your Child Go to Sleep , Stay Asleep, [...]

    28. If you have a sleep problem that you need to address, this book will not help you. If you know nothing about putting a toddler, a pre-schooler, or yourself to sleep, this book might have some news for you.But basically -- just avoid any book that says "no-cry." It means "we will talk about offering a boob anytime there's a problem," or "have you thought about keeping your child's room dark?" Anytime you're having sleep issues with your child, whether you're an advocate of the cry it out method o [...]

    29. This is the most incredible book I've ever seen on sleep and kids. Its written in a warm, intelligent, and approachable way.What I appreciate most is the honesty. Pantley does NOT promise an instant cure, rather she helps parents get a clear picture of age appropriate behavior, and offers a wide variety of possible solutions that can be implemented as a system that will work over time. Although our sleep problems are not cured, after only two weeks, the situation is already better. We've started [...]

    30. I'm not sure I would recommend buying Elizabeth Pantley's 'No Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Pre-Schoolers' although I would lend my copy for some of the general tips and for those parents ready to give up co-sleeping. There is a good deal of repetition in the book as the same ideas are presented in different chapters and some of the chapters are very light and I wonder if Pantley would have been better off not trying to deal with everything. She comes from a perspective of co-sleeping, whi [...]

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